Monday, May 04, 2009

Wedding Season

With wedding season approaching, what advice would you give to a new couple on how to have a successful wedding / marriage?

29 comments:

Striker said...

In the next couple of sentences I will tell you some of my advice on having a successful marriage. I would tell someone just to obey their spouse and to try to avoid any fights that come up between them. I would also tell them that once they get married they are never allowed to turn back on them so this person has to be right for you. Also I would tell them just to try and have a nice marriage and life. In the last couple of sentences I told you what I would tell someone if they were to get married soon.

Moby said...

I would tell them not to eat the cake but to have a cake fight. And for them to not have a long church ceremony. And for them to have better food then a biscuit and a sandwich. I would want them to have the dinner at a really nice sandwich. I would want them not to force people hate dancing like me. I would tell them to keep the wedding until 1:00pm. They should have lots of beer and wine. They should not make the kids go eather!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MATT WOELKY ROCKS said...

I would wish the new couple the best of luck. I would tell them you need God in your life more than ever. We you will be tested daily. God teaches love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control. Since they are sharing our lives with someone else, they need to make sure we follow these closely.
They should do a funky first dance so they start off their marriage with a lot of happiness and this will bring them closer together and teach them to work as a team.
Next I would tell the husband to keep his wife happy at all cost.

She is always RIGHT!!! Says Amy woelky

mooses21 said...

I would tell them that during the time before the wedding they should really connect with each other. That when the get married they are going to spend the rest of their lives together. Even on their special day that they are opening their hearts to each other. That when it comes to the wedding plans that they should not argue about it they should put their creativity together and even if it’s tacky they know that they thinks it’s beautiful. That is how I think that it is the way that people should get their advice on their weddings.

Moe said...

I would try to give them the most positive advice that I could. I would tell them before and after the wedding and reception that they are meant for each other and that there love for each other is powerful and like none other. I would tell them not to be scared and stick with each other and have some cake and food and enjoy the rest of the night. I would also tell them to dress nice and have fun on their honeymoon. Have a great time knowing that God loves you.
For the wedding day wear nice outfits and rent a beautiful church and put wonderful flowers out and enjoy yourselves.

bobbyjack said...

If I had to give advice to new couple on a successful marriage and was getting married I tell them to love each another and have a lot of things in common and they go to a church and believe in God. Try to not fight even thought were not perfect try to talk things out instead of fighting. Be respectful to each other as most of your ability .You needs lot of and I mean a lot of team work to be a couple. Make sure you have god in your life because God is always watching and God is going to be in your life.

Small fry said...

This is a very tough question since I’m only 12 years old and have never thought about marriage. So here it goes. The advice that I would give to anyone who is about to get married is: be best friends with your spouse so that you are enjoying the same things like, fishing, camping, and bike riding, The person you marry should like to laugh and have fun. The person that you marry should share your Christian faith, and once you are married you shouldn’t break up, Personally, I think that my wife should be a good cook.

KyLeE<3<3<3 said...

If I had to give advice to couple that just got married I would tell them to have a strong faith in God because that is the most important thing! I would try to give them the most positive advice I could! Something else I would tell them is to make sure that they are each others best friends! I would also wish them a good marriage! So that is a few advice I would give a couple that just got married! Considering I am only twelve!!!!

Yoshi said...

I would say don’t fight, because that is what breaks up most mirages, drugs are bad, because it makes one loopy and can make bad decisions, which might wind up in and save money, so that you can buy a house, get a car, and have enough money to raise kids, if they what some. Plus, don’t let little things get between you or you won’t get along. And finally, keep your faith in Jesus Christ, because it is the most important thing in life and it is the key to success. I would also say that have a happy life together and hope they both live long lives.

STEWART said...

If I had to give someone marriage advice, I would tell them that the most important is to retain a christian faith. I would tell them that they should have the strongest faith possible. Another thing I would tell them is to try not to fight, and if they do, don't let it destroy your relationship. I also would tell them not to divorce and be together as long as they can because it is hard on other people when someone they know has a divorce. Then I would wish them a happy marriage and a long life as a Christian husband and wife.

P.S. This is hard because I am only 12 and have been to only 1 wedding.

gota dash said...

I hope both of your lives are happy to gather and have a happy honeymoon. I hope both of you have the same religion but I hope you are Christian and be kind to each other. Husband support your wife. Have a dancing area set up for everyone to dance after you get married. You both should like the same things, like sports ore movies, etc, etc. Husband do not divorce your wife and wife, try to be bound to your husband all of your life. However, if the husband ore wife dies the other is free to marry.

Dancer 9721 said...

I would tell the couple that I wish them the best of luck and that I’m really happy for them. I would also tell them to have faith in God and that He would look over them no matter what. They would need to stay true to each other for the relationship to stay smooth. They would also need to stay completely honest with each other. They should really know each others likes and dislikes so that they don’t upset the other person. One person should not control they’re lives. They need to work as one. That is the advice I would give a married couple!

elmo said...

The first thing I would say to them is to make sure you are for sure. The second thing is that they should have dated a long time so that they know that they want to spend the rest of their lives together. Another thing is to try not to fight a lot is because that is what usually causes a divorce. Something else is that they should usually like doing the same things together. I would also tell them that they should discuss things like money, who will work, where they will live, if they will have children and their feature together.

Hannah said...

Some advice I would give to a couple getting married. Is to talk about the wedding and plan it together. Also go and talk to pastor Raash if you feel unsure about getting married. Also you shuld spend time with each like... going out to lunch together, going shopping for things for presents, going to a movie and just relaxing at home. Also discuss things about if you are going to buy a house and if you save up money to get a house , a car or a Flatscreen TV. That is the advice I would give a couple that is getting married.

moni said...

Some of the things I would say and do would have them be honest and make sure that they want to spend the rest of their life together. And during the process of planning the wedding they stay faithful and work together as a team.Of course the woman want their weddings gorgeous with beautiful flower boquet and a beautiful white flowy gown.Another thing they want is the perfect man.The one they always dreamed of. I think also its the same for guys except for the dress and the flowers.It's mostly finding the perfect girl.When a man and a woman fall in love I think its very special and deserves a day of celebration.Those are some of my tips tp anyone thats getting married.It is proably one of the best and most happiest day of your lives.

ZACK ROCKS said...

I would say don't , but sincis we have to say something to help . I would say don't go too big, because of the mony factor. And it would be to hard to set up and to take down. And find a good church and good place for the after party. Is it evey called an after party? See I don,t evey know what its called. The dress, I don,t what to say about it. The hony moon, I would say go a little bigger than the wedding, cause it should be more fun. Again I would say don,t, but thats what I say.

cookie said...

Okay, I’m a 12 year old kid, what would I know about marriage or weddings , except from what I see from my mom & dad, and sometimes that’s GROSS!! I think that a couple should split things 50/50, when it comes to work around the house and with the kids, and don’t have too many kids. Just imagine the bills if you have lots of kids. Don’t argue or yell, but talk things out, and crack jokes, lots of jokes. And buy your kid the cell phone he wants so he doesn’t drive you crazy! And remember to say “I love you”!!!

Tycenator 3000 said...

Id say that I dont know much about this topic since i havent went through time yet but I do know some stuff. For the wedding part I wouldnt put sooo much money into the wedding since we would have to buy a house and stuff you need. but You would want to put enough money into the reception to make sure that its fun and that you dont run out of beer and drinks. On the marrigde part cammunication is important.You need to talk to each other to know what the other person is thinking. You also need to help eachother out through your life in bad times and in good times no matter what happens. Just make sure that you spen enough time with eachouther and make sure that you love eachother.

luv acting! said...

The advice I would have for a married couple would be first priority is to stay strong in your faith and go to church every Sunday. Next is have patience with each other. After that would be have respect for each other. Also be kind and caring and helpful to your spouse. In the bible 1 Corinthians 13:13 says , "And these three remain faith, hope, and love but the greatest of these is love." Yes, a married couple needs both faith and hope. but probably the most important thing a married couple needs and is truly the "greatest of these" is love. Love for each other and love for God.

popcornshrimp said...

I would give them advice to have a happy marriage. I would tell them to work stuff out without having big fights. If you have kids treat them well and do activities with them together. Be best friends before getting married and know each other feelings and how they like to be treated. Have very good christian faith, go to church together and have fun. Make sure you have things in common with that person. Maybe you both like to four-wheel, or go fishing. Make sure both have good jobs and a nice house so money isn't a problem. You should always love each other and treat each other with kindness and you will have a happy life together.

Streak said...

Pray for the right mate. Happy wife, happy life. Make sure God is happy with your choice. Spending time together makes a good marriage. Good communication with your mate. Praying together and reading the bible. Going on dates together (out to the movies, going to dinner and invite friends to your house ECT.) Don’t eat too much cake or ice cream. Have a nice car and a big house, do not live with your mom or dad because they will kick you out and they will never live with them again. Never get a house way out west because you will get eaten up by mosquitoes.

fofa said...

Married people should be nice to each other. Listen to each other. Be loyal to each other. Share stuff. Have a fun wedding. Get pets. Get kids we are fun! Help each other pay for stuff like bills furnisher and clothes. Try not to fight work things out calmly. Love each other and forgive each other no matter what. Support each other. Spoil each other. Don’t let things like work get between you. Go to fancy restraints once in a while. Teach each other. Travel around and have lots of fun.
Pertect each other. that’s what married people should do.

JW said...

I would tell the couple to discuss all the really big decisions in life like children, religion, jobs, and their future together before marriage. This way the couple realizes what the other sees and wants in the future. This will help the married couple avoid realizing in a couple of years they want different things in life. I would also tell the couple to make sure to love each other everyday. They should try to make time for each other even when life gets crazy with work and kids. Try not to yell at each other and if you are fighting try to talk about the problem instead of yelling at each other. Always put your family first.

sunshine said...

the advice i would give to an almost married couple would be to stay true to each other and keep your faith strong. i would say to respect each other and have true care towards your spouce. also to love them truly stronger than any one else other than God. also to stay true to each other. dont get married just because, do it because of true love.

Hidden Mickey said...

First I would tell them to try and not mess up any of your lines. Chances are that if you mess up your marriage will be posted on YouTube, or you could end up on AFV. Then everybody will see your marriage. Secondly I would tell them to have an age-appropriate wedding. If you planned (your age) adults to come make it fun for them. If you are having kids also come, then plan a fun wedding for all ages. And last I would tell them that they are perfect for each other and to just have a good wedding.

Stick boy said...

If I had to give advice to a wedding couple I would tell the groom to buy his bride the best ring he could find. Then at the wedding day I would tell the groom to give the bride her ring in a special way. Then I would make them promise to never leave each other. I would tell them to split the work evenly. I would tell the groom to take his wife out for dinner every once and a while. I would tell them to never do anything without discussing it. I think that this is very good advice for a good long marrage.

nemo said...

If someone was getting married I would tell them to never scream at each other cause it would cause a huge fight and then get a divorce. And then they have to be lonely for a while until they find another love or you could live happily ever after and have a good life. You could go on honeymoons and have kids or anything you want and when you want. Then when you don’t know what to do you can ask you’re husband or wife to help. And you could get a dog or even a bird or a cat.

popkornshrimp said...

If I had to go to a summer camp I would go to a dirt bike camp. Ware you could go of jumps and get taught better if you didn’t no how to. And there would be lots of jumps . also there would be a track for the people ho wonted to race. Also there would be lots of challengers who would wont to race if you won you would get a big trophy and a 100$. Secount you would get 50$ and a small trophy.i would win all of the races. But one I would probily crash and get hert.

popkornshrimp said...

If I had to go to a summer camp I would go to a dirt bike camp. Ware you could go of jumps and get taught better if you didn’t no how to. And there would be lots of jumps . also there would be a track for the people ho wonted to race. Also there would be lots of challengers who would wont to race if you won you would get a big trophy and a 100$. Secount you would get 50$ and a small trophy.i would win all of the races. But one I would probily crash and get hert.